This week we are continuing on our project to help kids with special needs that are going to our school. Besides that, we are learning about attitudes and exterior look that can reveal a lot about us.
People are approaching us and talking to us, and it is in great measure determined by look on our faces, our external look or by gestures we do. If you have your arms crossed or in your pockets that can mean to some people you are not in good mood to talk and they wont even try to do so. But if you have you hands next to you, or only one of them in your pocket, that can mean that you are happy and opened to talk. Our look is in great measure determined by our mood, and our look is actually opinion we have about our selfs. If we are sloppy that can mean we do not care about how we look or what is going on. If we are too dressed up tough, it can mean that we think we are the best and that we are always right.
There is no ideal behavior and people will always have ticks, or gestures or something else. But if we realize it we can try stop it when it starts happening. I think we are learning this because of our upcoming start of work with special education students, and that we should know this because to them it means a lot more than it means to us. If they do not see you are interested in them, it will not be good and even tough it is not always on purpose it can seem like that to them. So always be aware of your gestures and actions and people will have a good opinion about you.
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